Feel more human, TTC your tiny human
Does this sound like you?
✨ Trying for your baby has become all consuming. It’s taken over every area of your life and you don’t recognise yourself anymore.
✨You feel exhausted from putting on a brave face and pretending everything’s fine. Because you’re not fine, you feel broken inside.
✨ The thought of being pregnant again after your loss fills you with fear. You don’t feel like you could deal with that happening again.
If you can relate to any of these, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I get it because I’ve been there too.
You want things to be different, here’s how they can be:
I put my heart and soul into working with my clients, because I know how overwhelming and uncertain this time feels.
My 1:1 programmes are a unique mix of coaching, counseling and mind-body techniques to transform how you’re feeling about yourself and your fertility.
It was my own experience which led me to what to support you through yours. So I left my “proper job” as a Midwife and Health Visitor to support this community who often feel so unseen and unsupported.
You can heal from the past
I can support you to heal from your experience up to now. That may be pregnancy loss, unsuccessful fertility treatment, or the pain of countless setbacks, BFN’s and disappointments.
Healing doesn’t mean forgetting.
It means being able to think about the past without the overwhelming sadness, anxiety, anger or whatever difficult emotion is attached.
And to be able to look to the future with hope and optimism.
You can feel like the real you again
I can support you to reconnect with your partner and remember why you want this baby together.
To feel able to be more open with your friends and family and allow them to support you, the way you support them.
To feel happy for the next friend who tells you she’s pregnant, knowing that will be you soon.
You deserve to find the fun and enjoyment in life again, rather than putting life on hold and waiting to live.
You can feel optimistic about the future
Do you never let yourself get your hopes up because you fear disappointment?
We all do this as a form of self protection. But is preparing for the worst really helping you? Does it mean you’re not upset when your period shows up?
I’m guessing you’re devastated anyway, right?
I can support you to feel confident and allow yourself to focus on what you really want. So that your mind and body can work together towards your desire to have your baby.
Come for a baby, leave with your life back
What my amazing clients said about our work together:
“Working with Nicola has been completely transformative for my life. I feel like I have the tools to cope now. I can also honestly say that I feel no guilt over my pregnancy losses – that sentence would have been insane to me in June!
Nicola is so skilled at what she does, easy to talk to and so knowledgeable. I feel calm, hopeful and ready to face my next chapter”.
~ HH, Leeds
“I know without our work I would never be this optimistic going through this [IVF] process. I was probably at one of the lowest points of my life. Now I’m smiling again and able to talk about my journey without anxiety. I’m so incredibly thankful for you.
I am finally happy for my friends when they announce their pregnancies and I can be around my friend’s children again. I have regained my hope that I had fully lost. And most importantly, I know my family is coming!”
“Nicola I just got the call from my doctor ….WE ARE PREGNANT!!”
~ AK, USA
My 1:1 Programmes
Restore
Restore is designed to be flexible, it works particularly well if you have fertility treatment starting imminently, or perhaps you’ve suffered a pregnancy loss without infertility.
The details:
✨ 4 x 60-90 minute 1:1 sessions with me. Space to feel heard and understood. A chance to focus on you and to come away feeling refreshed and empowered.
✨Many tools and techniques to reduce stress and anxiety which will not only improve how you’re feeling but boost your fertility as well.
✨ The focus will be on healing from what’s happened in the past. Pregnancy loss, unsuccessful IVF or endless disappointment. So that you can let go of the emotional overwhelm and move forward feeling lighter and free.
✨ Relaxation audios that bring you a state of peace and calm whenever you need them.
✨ Have me in your back pocket throughout our time working together. This journey is a rollercoaster, I’ll be there to celebrate your wins and reassure you in the difficult moments.
Investment:
£799
(Payment plan available to split the cost into 2 monthly payments of £400)
Bloom
In my signature 4 month programme you’ll receive:
✨ 7 x 60-90 minute 1:1 sessions with me. This is your opportunity to feel heard and understood. The chance to focus on you and to come away feeling refreshed and empowered.
✨ I’ll share many incredible tools and powerful techniques to reduce stress and anxiety which will not only improve how you’re feeling but boost your fertility as well.
✨ Heal from what’s happened in the past. Pregnancy loss, unsuccessful IVF or endless disappointment. So that you can let go of the emotional overwhelm and move forward feeling lighter and free.
✨ My support in between our sessions. (This is what my clients find invaluable) You’ll have me in your back pocket throughout our time working together. You’re hit with an unexpected pregnancy announcement, I’ll be there to remind you that you can handle it and remind you of the how.
✨ Guided relaxation audios that bring you a state of peace and calm whenever you need them.
✨ You’ll regain control of how you’re feeling and make shifts at a deep subconscious level. So you no longer have to “try” to think positively, it will come as naturally as knowing you want to be a mother.
✨ Restore hope and optimism in your fertility journey. Shift your thinking from “if I have a baby” to “when I have my baby”.
✨ This journey is a rollercoaster, I’ll be there to celebrate your wins and reassure you in the difficult moments.
Investment:
£1200
(Payment plan available to split the cost into 4 monthly payments of £300)
Click the link below to book your free call to find out if this is the right thing for you.
A little message to you for making it this far…
I know getting in touch is a big step. I also know the future you, will be so grateful you did!
Does this work?
Nothing can guarantee pregnancy.
But I can guarantee that this will transform the way you’re feeling about yourself and your fertility. You will start living again, feeling happier, lighter, free.
I get it you’ve tried so many things. Already spent so much money, time and energy and have nothing to show for it.
This is different. Because the aim is to change the way you feel. To start living life again. To have ways of coping with the difficult moments so they don’t have the power to ruin you day. To stop putting life on hold. Stop distancing yourself from the people you love. AND regain hope.
The good news is doing this has been shown to improve rates of pregnancy success, both naturally and with fertility treatment.
What is the pregnancy success rate of people who have taken your programme?
I’m always careful about sharing my pregnancy success rates. The aim of my programme isn’t pregnancy, it’s about healing, regaining emotional control, feeling able to deal with life and to feel optimistic about the future. Yes, doing this does often lead to pregnancy. But not always.
At the same time I think it’s important to know that this work does very often lead to pregnancy success.
As a guide for you at the time of writing this, my 2020/21 success rates are as follows:
Women who had fertility treatment, 78% were successful.
And natural pregnancies so far, is at 76%.
What do you need from me?
I need your commitment to doing things differently, to get a different result. To taking action that will transform how you’re feeling right now.
I don’t and can’t promise pregnancy. But I can support you to take back control of how you’re feeling, reduce the stress in your life as much as possible and feel excited about the future.
Luckily doing this, is also shown to improve your fertility.
Don’t come to me to get pregnant. Come to me to heal from the past, to enjoy now and move forward trusting your baby is on it’s way.
What if I get pregnant during our work together?
It would be amazing and I love it when this happens! Getting a BFP after a difficult journey or after previous loss can be an anxious time. So support at that point is equally (if not even more) important. We can switch our sessions to pregnancy support which my clients have found incredibly valuable.
Who is this NOT for?
If you don’t believe the way you’re feeling is affecting your life or your fertility, this probably isn’t for you. If you’re looking for the next thing to tick off the list of things you’ve tried which didn’t work, this is not that.
If what I’m writing and saying doesn’t make sense to you, this isn’t for you.
I believe you know if this is right for you.
I’m not sure I can afford it.
It’s an investment. An investment in how you’re feeling. I know it’s hard to prioritise that (especially if you might need to save for IVF).
But, how much longer can you go on feeling the way you do now